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Weekend cleaning is on the minds of the moms who are posting in the Family forum about household clutter; bjogging writes: "I, too, am a queen of clutter and have a husband just as bad. ... It seems that I am able to do all the laundry, but it never gets put away in a timely fashion (or at all). We have only one child, but to see our home you would think that we have a dozen kids ... When I have tried to throw something away, my husband will get it out of the trash. It makes me crazy, but I have learned that if I really want something gone, I have to take it to Salvation Army."