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The Honolulu Advertiser
Posted on: Monday, August 28, 2006

Leadership corner

Full interview with Vivian Aiona

Interviewed by Dan Nakaso
Advertiser Staff Writer

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VIVIAN AIONA

Age: 48

Title: Moderator

Organization: Third annual International Women's Leadership Conference, tomorrow in the Hawaii Ballroom of the Sheraton Waikiki hotel.

Born: Makiki

High school: Roosevelt High School, class of 1976. I just had my 30th reunion.

College: Attended Honolulu Community College, studying deaf interpretation. I grew up with a neighbor, Patty, whose mother, Georgia Morikawa, was deaf and an outstanding leader in the deaf community in Hawai'i. It had such an impression on me.

Breakthrough job: Retiring from Air Canada in 2002 after 25 years working night shift in customer service. I asked for an unpaid leave of absence for 30 days once we had accepted the challenge of running for office and we found out quickly how demanding it could be on our family of four children. I was disappointed, but I felt that God was closing one door and opening another. This was a turning point because I left the routine and comfort and the dependency on that paycheck. But it's completely opened up my schedule to other events.

Little-known fact: I love chocolate, especially hot-fudge sundaes. I love the hula pie at Duke's Canoe Club Waikiki. I love to bake, especially carrot cake. I'm also heading up the bereavement ministry at our church, Resurrection of The Lord, in Waipi'o Gentry.

Mentor: My two older sisters. I grew up with a mom with mental illness, schizophrenia /bi-polar. It was a trying childhood. One of my sisters is 18 years older, Jeanne Beatty, and the other is 14 years older, Bebe Garrett. They just filled in all those gaps — all the conversations a teenager might have had with a mom about boyfriend or girlfriend, all the struggles, all the sports, all the daily activities, the small stuff, the big stuff. They were awesome.

Major challenge: Finding family time. My husband (Lt. Gov. James "Duke" Aiona) is awesome but as careful as he is, we don't have him as much as we'd like him to be there and he'd like to be there.

Hobbies: I love listening to music: Christian music, old jazz, Frank Sinatra, Jose Feliciano, the Crusaders, Spyro Gyra. We still have a lot of vinyl.

Books recently read: "Mother Teresa: In My Own Words," by Mother Teresa. She said, "God has called me to be faithful, not successful." "Memoirs of a Geisha," by Arthur Golden. Sidney Sheldon novels.

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Q. As you have in the first two women's leadership conferences, you will once again be moderating an impressive array of women leaders.

A. We have a videotaped greeting by first lady Laura Bush and a videotaped greeting by Oprah Winfrey. Karen Hughes, former U.S. under-secretary who managed the White House Office of Communications. Our luncheon speaker will be Rear Adm. Sally Brice-O'Hara, our new commander of the Coast Guard here in Hawai'i. Izumi Kobayashi, president of Merrill Lynch Japan. We're all looking forward to hearing from this extraordinary woman from Iraq, Zainab Al-Suwaij, during this historic time. There will be two women from the Philippines, Gov. Grace Padaca of Isabela province, and Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes, president of the Philippine Women's University. Motivational speaker Renée Amoore really rocks and rolls the conference. She really lights up the place. Last year she played Chaka Khan and came down the center aisle. Dr. Johnetta Cole, the first African-American woman to serve as president of Spelman College and the first woman ever to be elected to the Board of Coca-Cola, will be in a videotaped message. Our own Constance Lau (president and CEO of Hawaiian Electric Industries Inc.) can only inspire our local girls. (The conference also will feature Paige Hemmis, from ABC-TV's "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition.")

Q. This year the conference has been condensed to one day.

A. Because it's one day, there are more women attending. Previous years we've had close to 300 people. This year we're hoping to hit 500, if not go over. A lot of women who may have considered going in the past perhaps think that they can take at least one day off from work. When you walk away you think, "Why didn't I come the last two years?" It reconfirms that women are spread very thin and we don't want to take the time out, but it's so fulfilling and so invigorating.

Q. You've mentioned several women in your life who have had profound effects on you.

A. Women, by nature, are sacrificing. When we come together in a big group, we're inspired and we rally for each other and we cheer for each other and we're motivated by each other. After the last two conferences, we've come away with that understanding and the need for us to take a break and spend some time together and listen to our girlfriends and our peers.

Q. Girls regularly attend the conferences and even help out. How important is it for them to be exposed to successful women leaders?

A. It's a different world for our young women. The whole world is at their fingertips. To have these women leaders present just confirms that. Our world in Hawai'i is so small. I'm a perfect example. Working for an airline for 25 years I never had a passport until four years ago. Now I've been blessed to travel and meet some of these women. But we're not that far from the '50s and '60s when men had the predominant roles of leadership. So it's still important to let girls know they have every reason to hold those positions.

Reach Dan Nakaso at dnakaso@honoluluadvertiser.com.